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Thursday, August 9, 2012

Why People Grow Apart

People change, feelings change. It does not mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real. It simply just means that sometimes, when people grow, they grow apart. - 500 Days of Summer

I know the feeling of falling in love and falling out of love -- because I have experienced it too. As much as I regret, yes for once, I had to leave another person not because I didn't loved him. We just grew apart. So for my recent failed relationship, I'm trying to rationalize, as to why he left. Sometimes I do doubt if during our happy times, he was just pretending. But maybe....

Maybe what we had was real, I would like to believe it was. 

Somehow, I'm less quizzical about my past relationship. 

Moving on with my life doesn't mean that I do forget my past, nor deny it. I have accepted the fact that no matter how beautiful it was, it still had to end. And in this reality, we're two different beings who is bound to take on two different paths.

Still I'm thankful. I won't be who I am today if it wasn't for him. 

Maybe I'll have another one, who would make our memories fade as we build the best ones. One day, you'l simply be an old friend to me.

One thing is certain, our past was real and it did happen for a reason.


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